Settling in · 6 min read

How to Make Friends When You Move to a New Area

The boxes get unpacked in a week. Feeling at home takes longer and it depends almost entirely on knowing people. Friendship after thirty is built through repetition so the trick is putting yourself somewhere regularly.

Published 19 March 2025

Choose activities that repeat weekly

A one off event introduces you to strangers. A weekly class running club choir or five a side game introduces you to the same people over and over which is how familiarity turns into friendship. Pick anything you would enjoy even if nobody spoke to you.

Introduce yourself to neighbours in the first fortnight

There is a short window after moving in when knocking on a door to say hello is completely normal. Use it. After a couple of months it feels awkward and most people never do it.

Use local networks properly

Community Facebook groups Nextdoor parkrun and local volunteering schemes are the fastest routes into an area. Volunteering in particular puts you alongside people who already know everyone.

Say yes for the first six months

Accept every invitation even the ones that do not sound appealing. Early on your job is to increase the number of connections not to filter them. Filtering comes later.

In short

Pick something weekly meet the neighbours early and say yes to everything for six months.

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